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What is Domestic Violence?
Domestic violence is abuse that occurs in the home between household members. Current statistics indicate that in half of all relationships, at least one episode of violence occurs, and that for many, it continues in a regular cycle. The victims of domestic violence, most often women, generally view the societal obstacles as insurmountable and their alternatives as few.
Are you a victim of domestic violence?
- Are you frightened of your partner's temper?
- Has your partner ever touched you against your will?
- Do you feel like you are walking on egg shells when you are with your partner?
- As a child, did you witness abuse?
- Have you been hit, kicked, and/or shoved by your partner?
- Has your partner kept you from working and/or controlled your finances?
- Has your partner threatened to hurt or kidnap the children if you leave him/her?
- Does your partner call you names and belittle you?
Impact of Domestic Violence on Children
Children experience a wide range of feelings and behaviors in response to violence in the home. Some of the effects of domestic violence on children include the following:
- Physical complaints
- Sleep disturbances
- Low self-esteem
- Acting-out behaviors
- Low frustration tolerance
- Anger
- Lowered academic performance
- Difficulties concentrating
- Separation anxiety
- Stress disorders
- Anxiousness
- Difficulty relating to peers
Why do victims stay with their abusers?
fear of greater violence if they leave
financial dependence
"for the sake of the children"
social isolation; lack of support from family and friends
belief that the abuse is warranted and that they are responsible for making a change
periodic "good times" which seem to suggest that the relationship will improve
Victims have three basic choices
Continue the relationship with the abuser as it is, knowing that the situation may get worse.
Leave the abuser and begin a new life on their own.
Remain in the relationship while both parties seek counseling to break the cycle of abuse.
Survivors of domestic violence and sexual violence should know that:
NO ABUSE IS ACCEPTABLE and that HELP IS AVAILABLE!
The Women's Resource Center (397-6161) can help victims decide which options are best for them and can help them reach their goal.
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